“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.” – C.S. Lewis
Power has a shelf life, there is a time for everything, and a season for every purpose under heaven. Every dream begins as a spark. It is a flicker of imagination. It only becomes reality when you act on it.
Asking yourself “What is my dream worth to me?” isn’t just about defining your goal; it’s about measuring the depth of your commitment. Your dream will demand something of you; time, courage, and consistency. But remember: you are a work in progress, and it’s never too late to begin again.
You cannot keep cheering others on while doubting yourself. Your enthusiasm must match your vision. Have clarity, believe in your potential, and cultivate a magnetic energy that draws opportunities to you. If you don’t build your dream, someone else will hire you to build theirs.
The true worth of a dream
A dream isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity for a life of meaning. It’s what gives direction, purpose, and vitality to your journey. The real question isn’t “Can I achieve it?” but “Am I willing to pay the price?”
The cost of a dream is never financial alone. It’s paid in time, effort, sacrifice, and growth. You exchange comfort for commitment, predictability for purpose, and fear for faith.
Chasing your dream requires waking up early. It means working when you’d rather rest. You must say “no” to distractions. It involves risking the comfort of the familiar. True dreamers trade convenience for calling.
But with every sacrifice comes transformation. Each moment of discomfort molds your strength and resilience. Each delay refines your vision.
“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.” – Henry David Thoreau
The sacrifices dreams demand
- The sacrifice of comfort: Chasing your dream means stepping away from stability. You may give up a secure job, familiar routines, or the approval of others. Comfort will tempt you to stay the same, but purpose demands that you grow.
- The sacrifice of identity: To become who you’re meant to be, you must shed who you used to be. That means facing criticism, embracing vulnerability, and risking failure. A dream tests your character before it crowns your success.
- The sacrifice of time and relationships: Pursuing purpose often shifts your priorities. You may spend long hours alone, miss social events, or feel misunderstood. Family and friends might not always understand your path. The dream, however, is proof of something greater calling you forward.
- The sacrifice of security: Dreams don’t thrive in comfort zones. They flourish in the soil of faith. You might need to delay gratification. Live simply. Invest your resources in the future you believe in, even when there are no guarantees.
- The sacrifice of emotional safety: Every bold dreamer must confront fear, doubt, and failure. The price of growth is vulnerability. You’ll face judgment and rejection, but each moment of perseverance strengthens your purpose.
When your family doesn’t support your dream
Not every dream receives applause. Sometimes, the hardest part is when your family doesn’t understand or support your vision. This can be painful, but it’s not the end of your story.
Recognise that their resistance often comes from love or fear, not opposition. Instead of fighting for approval, show them results. Let your consistency and progress speak louder than explanations.
You don’t need permission to live your purpose, only the courage to start. Be respectful, but firm. In time, even those who doubted may come to admire your determination. Your task is not to convince them, but to remain faithful to the dream God placed in your heart.
“Don’t let anyone steal your dream. It’s your dream, not theirs.” – Dan Zadra
The multi-dream dilemma
Many people struggle because they have too many dreams and can’t decide where to start. Here’s the truth: you don’t have to abandon your passions, you just need to organise them.
- Integrate: If your dreams complement each other, combine them into one cohesive path.
- Sequence: Focus on one dream at a time. Build stability with one, then use that foundation to pursue the next.
- Prioritise: Choose a primary dream that aligns with your current life stage and resources. Let your secondary dreams feed your energy and creativity without overwhelming you.
Every season has its dream. Some dreams are meant for now; others are seeds for later. Don’t bury them, nurture them in order.
The price of Ignoring your dream
The greatest cost isn’t failure, it’s regret. Not chasing your dream leaves you with the haunting question: “What if I had tried?”
You lose the opportunity to discover your full capacity and experience the joy of walking in your purpose. The pain of unfulfilled potential lasts longer than any temporary failure.
Your journey may not unfold as planned. Like Joseph in the Bible, he faced betrayal, slavery, and prison on his path to greatness. Yet, his story reminds us that divine timing redeems every detour. Hold on to your vision, what God begins in you, He will bring to completion.
Your dream, your destiny
A dream’s worth is measured not by its comfort, but by its transformation. It’s what pushes you beyond limits, shapes your faith, and connects you to your purpose.
Age doesn’t disqualify you. Past failures don’t define you. Every step you take, no matter how small, moves you closer to the life you’re meant to live.
So ask yourself today:
- What is my dream worth to me?
- Am I willing to pay the price, in faith, discipline, and perseverance to see it come alive?
Because if you are, no obstacle can stop you.
“He has made everything beautiful in its time.” – Ecclesiastes 3:11
Keep building even when no one is clapping.
Keep believing, even when progress feels slow.
One day, you will look back and realise that every struggle was preparation for the fulfillment of your dream.






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